All to often, the gay marriage debate is oversimplified and both pro- and contra- positions are misrepresented. So, I was very happy to see this article by Marc Barnes:
The article isn’t perfect, nor totally comprehensive in its presentation of the pro’s and con’s, but in a lot of ways Marc seems to get the basic problem right.
Part of the problem, as he points out, is the reduction of people to abstractions, by using labels and stereotypes. He has another article specifically on the stereotyping of men who have same-sex attractions. It is worth reading too!